My boyfriend,28, is just beginning to confront his feelings of his early childhood adoption at the age of 6 and the abuse he was victim of by his biological family. (The entire family;uncles,grandparents and parents) Throughout the past year, he has mentally abused me with dominating, controlling and manipulating tactics. Upon realizing myself that these methods are not healthy and I do not deserve them, I love him enough to try to help in any way I can. I have moved out of his house and established myself once again to get away from this behavior. I have let him know I will stand by him and try to support him as best I can but I have a very short fuse for him. I'm angered for what he has done to me, yet, at the same time, I love him enough and have such a nurturing heart, I can't help but want to help. He says he wants to get counseling, and I have agreed to be part of it to try to understand him and try to create a healthy relationship between the two of us. Should I leave altogether? Or, am I doing the right thing? What can I do?
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