My ex left me 6 months ago after 4 years together for a woman who was a mutual friend. My question is that, during our relationship, he was very emotionally abusive. He was not abusive not first. In fact, he was a sweetheart for a while.
This was my fault, I guess, for allowing him to be abusive.
When he is with this woman he is so different, so soft and sweet. He gives her everything, speaks to her like an angel. He's like a completely different person with her. He has given up smoking for her. I am wondering, can someone change so quickly or was it me who brought out the abuse in him?......... I'm so confused and lost.
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