My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years. We are two very happy and social people (when we're around others). People tell us we're great together. Unfortunately we have issues (like in any relationship) but ours do come from our childhood. He has a problem showing me affection (he had a terrible relationship with his mother, he was not taught how to show he loves someone) and we have had major arguments over this. He wants me to settle for what he gives me. But I'm done with that, we have talked about getting help but because of our jobs and our kids (he has 3 and I have 3) we never have gone through with it. I on the other had have an issue listing and talking advise for a man, my dad i very abusive to my mom he dictates every move she makes. I don't want to end up like her taking orders from a man. My boyfriend can't take this anymore. We have ended our relationship due to these issues we can't get over, not to mention we both have trust issues. We are now hurting because we're away from each other!!! HELP !!!! He says we need to be friends only but I love him and I know he loves me. When do you know when enough is enough?
THE ANSWER TO THIS QUESTION WILL NOT BE DISPLAYED UNTIL YOU HAVE INDICATED YOUR AGREEMENT WITH THE DISCLAIMER PRINTED JUST BELOW. CLICK THE 'I AGREE' BUTTON TO AGREE TO THESE TERMS AND SEE THE RESPONSE.