I have been dating a wonderful man for the past eight months. Before that I had gone through a divorce and a difficult marriage. I am falling in love with the man I am currently dating and am having difficulty expressing my feelings toward him. I am afraid that he will get scared and leave or that I haven't given myself enough time to grieve my last relationship. I do not want to re-kindle that old fire - flame is too mild to describe the previously stressful relationship, but i don't want to let my feelings for this man get out of control and ruin what we have. I know it sounds silly, but I'm basically afraid to tell him how I feel, that I love him. I actually stop myself from saying it to him out of fear of loosing him. I am at a loss as to what to do. Any advice would be helpful.
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