My ex-girlfriend of two and a half years just moved back into the area after being gone and out of my life for 3 1/2 years. We went out to celebrate her return and one thing led to another, suddenly, three days after she got back, we are sleeping together again and falling (me at least) back in love. Let me qualify that by saying that she had been "the love of my life" thus far, so the feelings are very real and about as deep as you can get at 23. Last night (1 week after she get back) she tells me that she is "falling back in love with me" and is thinking about spending the rest of her life with me. Then she tells me that her ex BF is going to be visiting a few hours away and she had told him before she "fell back in love with me" that she would spend the next five days with him (i.e. sleeping in his bed, maybe sex...) and would feel badly if she let him down. Let me say also that there is no concrete commitment between her and I at this point, but the "L word" has been spoken by her and I. She left today, and I feel like someone ripped out my insides and jumped on them. I know I will feel this way for the next 4 days and 12 hours, and I am not sure how I will feel when she gets back. Should I try to forget about this and chalk one up to "tying up loose ends" and go on unless it happens again? Or should I get all the pain over with now and end it because of the trust issues? I love her more than any other woman I have ever been with, and that's more than a few. I let her know how I felt, but she had made up her mind....she did try to console me and asked that I "have faith in her", but I am not stupid and know what they will be up to. I may never trust her again, but believe me when I say that I will never love anyone as much as her again. Please answer, I am at the end of my emotional rope.
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