My boyfriend and I have been in a warm, caring relationship for about 13 months. We have so much in common (traveling, values, etc.) and are currently discussing our future together in terms of 2 to 3 years from now. He had ended his relationship with his ex prior to our meeting, and told me that they were just friends. I found out 8 months after meeting him that she still comes over periodically to perform a kinky sexual favor for him. I am upset. He does not want me out of his life. He states that I have wonderful qualities that he cannot find in his ex. He still wants us to continue our plans. He states that since he and his ex have had a history together for about 7 years, he can not abandon her. I am just trying to be patient, not overly jealous and hope that this really is going to end soon in my favor. Can he still be in love with her? Will he later make up his mind that the history with her is stronger? Or is he really sincere that we have a future and she will be out of the picture soon?
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