I have been seeing a guy for about 8 months now. He is recently divorced and although he tells me he is over his ex-wife, I think he is still in love with her (she cheated on him with 3 other guys). Well, although I don't want to get married soon, I would like a steady relationship with him as I have fallen in love with him. I've known him for eight years now, and my feelings have deepened considerably. Everytime I bring up the subject of what type of relationship we have, he tells me that we are just "very good friends" and that there is no commitment. However, we have gotten intimate on several occasions and we are much closer than "just friends." He tells me he is scared and that he is afraid of something and he doesn't know what it is. It's been 8 months now, and I don't know how to just sit back and relax when I care so much about him. What should I do? My friends tell me to move on. My parents are totally against this. I don't know what to do anymore. Sometimes things are fine; other times things are not so great. Some days he just can't live without me; others he doesn't even call. Please help!
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