About two months ago my girlfriend of two years lied to me about a "girls' night out." Rather than having a girls' night out, she and a friend went to meet an ex-boyfriend of hers who now lives in a different state. I generally do not have a problem with her seeing ex-boyfriends. However, this particular ex has made several calls to her and asked her to get away for the weekend. She has refused his advances. Within the last six months they have resumed talking and e-mailing each other. She met him for a happy hour, which I knew about and was fine with. Then the next day she had this false girls night out. When I asked her who went, she told me she met him and a friend of his. I love her dearly. However, I am having a hard time trusting her based on this incident. It is really having an impact on our relationship. I know I need to get over it in order for our relationship to survive. I also realize it would be foolish to ask her to give up a friend and I don't want to be responsible for that. Any suggestions on how to get over this trust issue?
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