I have been with my boyfriend for the past six years. I am very comfortable with him, and we get along great. The only problem is that he doesn't excite me like previous boyfriends have. I think I see him more as a friend than a lover. I know that no one can be completely happy in a relationship, and that there are trade-offs. My problem is that I think I could be happier, but I'm afraid to leave him. What if I can't find anyone better? He's not exactly the guy I've dreamed about meeting since I was a little girl, but I do love him. I've dated a lot of other men; he seems to be the most compatible guy I've dated. I've never felt so comfortable with another person before. Could I just learn to be happy...? I really don't want to hurt him.
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