I'm 22 years-old, and I have a 49-year-old boyfriend whom I love very much. We've been together for almost 4 years now, and he loves me very much. The problem is that he's married. I've tried many different things to try and persuade him to get a divorce, but he won't. I've threatened to tell his wife about our affair. I've threatened suicide. I've pleaded with him. I told him I'd stop taking my birth control pills and I'd get pregnant so he'd have to leave his wife. I've even told him I'd go out with this other man who wanted to see me. I actually thought about breaking up with him and going for this other man, but there are two problems: this other man is single, but he's 56 years-old and secondly, he also works in the same place that my boyfriend does. I like this man a lot; we've been friends for a long time, but if I dated him I couldn't live it down. Both men work in mass transit, and that's the only way I have to get around. I'm afraid that my current boyfriend and this guy will get into a fight on the bus over me! What can I do?
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