My girlfriend and I tell each other sexual fantasies to get in the mood for sex. The recurring theme is me having sex with someone else, either with or without her. This turns me on a fair bit but, for her, to a much greater extent. She will often encourage me to insult her on her poor sexual abilities in comparison to our fictionalized "other woman" or on her looks and body. Though I often don't mind doing this, I do it solely because she wants me too and she gets such sexual pleasure out of it.
Is this masochistic behavior something I should be discouraging because it may be a mask for some psychological issue or something that could lead to problems down the track? Thank you
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