I am having terrible trouble in my new relationship. It starts when I was married and happy then my mother passed away just before Christmas, 1999 and I found it very hard, then my husband left me the following year on Christmas eve. He took everything leaving me with no food, etc. I went into shock but friends helped me through and I started to get my life together again and I met someone new who is wonderful. He does everything for me, money, time, etc. but I have terrible trouble trusting him. He has never done anything to warrant my distrust but if he says that he is going out with his friends for a drink ( which he does very rarely ) I go in to panic mode and stress very badly. All I can think about is that he will see someone better than me and leave me. I have tried so hard to overcome this but it is beginning to take over our lives, we can't go anywhere without me thinking that he is on the look out for a new person ( like my ex-husband did ) and will dump me. Where do I go from here? All I want is to go out and have fun with him without worrying that he is looking else where.
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