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Elisa Goldstein, Ph.D.Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D.
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A Fun and Mindful Way to Transform Your Child's Stress

Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D. Updated: Mar 27th 2012

childrenAccording to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services about 1 in 10 children suffer from an anxiety disorder and according to the Anxiety Disorders Association of America (AADA) anxiety is the most common issue for children and adolescents today.  Whether it's worrying about fitting in with the cool group at school, mounting pressure about needing to get perfect grades, or a major life event, anxiety can be a major problem and impact their everyday activities. What can you look out for and what can you do?

Anxiety in children and adolescents may experience problems physically complaining of a stomach ache, headache, or having diarrhea. Or maybe they've been having trouble sleeping, eating food, or paying attention. You might notice them becoming more irritable or avoiding wanting to do things like go to school or be involved in family activities.

For over 25 years Charlotte Reznick, Ph.D., an Educational Psychologist and author of The Power of Your Child's Imagination, has been specializing in giving children and adolescents tools to work with worry, anxiety, fear, and pain supporting and empowering them through difficult times. In an article in the Alternative Journal of Nursing, Dr. Reznick writes about the power of using a child's imagination for healing. One foundational technique she describes is an imagery technique that teaches the child or adolescent the balloon breath to help calm the body and mind.

In doing this practice she suggests breathing slowly and deeply into the belly focusing attention a couple inches below the belly button to help center and calm a child (an adult too).

She provides a sample transcript: 

The Balloon Breath

"Let's take a few minutes to be aware of your breathing. Put your hands over your belly so you can notice your breath going there. That's right. Breathe slowly, about two to three inches just below your belly button, so your belly rises and falls as you breathe in and out. Good. Let's breathe in even slower, to the count of one ... two ... three. Now, breathe out just as slowly ... one ... two ... three.

Repeat until comfortable, practice 1-3 minutes each session, several times a day."

She also brings in the idea of having them do this balloon breath and then bringing in imagery. Bring them through imagining things with their five senses. What do they smell, hear, feel, see, and taste? This power of imagination can help calm the nervous system and bring the child back to center. She notes that you don't need any special training to do this with a child, simply your sincerity and respect for the child will make it come through.

If we can help children and adolescents gain the skills to become more centered and grounded at an early age, we may be able to prevent for pervasive issues down the road and empower them to lead successful and happy lives.

Remember parents and teachers, you can also bring this playful practice into your own life, modeling it for the kids and calming your anxious mind.

As always, please share your comments and questions below. Your additions provide a living wisdom for us all to benefit from.


Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D.

Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in private practice in West Los Angeles and is author of the upcoming book The Now Effect, co-author of A Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction Workbook, Foreword by Jon Kabat-Zinn, author of the Mindful Solutions audio series, and the Mindfulness at Work program currently being adopted in multiple multinational corporations.

Check out Dr. Goldstein's acclaimed CD's on Mindful Solutions for Stress, Anxiety, and Depression, Mindful Solutions for Addiction and RelapsePrevention, and Mindful Solutions for Success and Stress Reduction at Work. -- "They are so relevant, I have marked them as one of my favorites on a handout I give to all new clients" ~ Psychiatrist.

If you're wanting to integrate more mindfulness into your daily life, sign up for his Mindful Living Twitter Feed. Dr. Goldstein is also available for private psychotherapy.

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